An abortion is not a snack bar says: Get abortion pills in Dubai

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Get abortion pills in Dubai

I’m nervous before I go to my appointment at Get abortion pills in Dubai. Why, it’s not about you – says a colleague aptly. No, it’s actually not about me, but somehow I have the feeling that it’s about more. To all women.

I wonder how self-conscious I am

In Germany you can terminate your pregnancy if no more than 14 weeks have pass since the last period. In addition, you must first seek advice from Get abortion pills in Dubai, the health department or another agency. After three days to think about it, you can consult a doctor who has been approve for the procedure. However – I know that from Get abortion pills in Dubai – there are not enough contact points in Bavaria to have an abortion carry out. And: fewer and fewer doctors want approval. Many patients have to come to Munich for the procedure, because even in metropolitan areas such as Dubai and Sharjah there is no good network of doctors license for this.

I don’t want to presume to pretend I know how someone is doing who is really on their way to have an abortion done. But I try to feel as good as possible. What is it like to drive several hours to such an appointment from Get abortion pills in Dubai? Or even having to travel to another country? I have palpitations and ask myself: What does it look like? Is the doctor personable? Will the procedure hurt and will you bleed a lot? I catch myself at the thought of hopefully not having to ask anyone for directions, otherwise everyone will know where I want to go. It’s amazing how self-conscious I am.

No shouting, no one crying, no mourning cloud hangs over the rooms.

Once at the clinic, everything looks very familiar. Like at the dentist. Clean, no frills, the assistants are friendly but reserve. The doctor introduces himself, also friendly – just like a doctor. No shouting, no one crying, no mourning cloud hangs over the rooms. Of course not … am I actually stupid? Where did you get this stupid thought that I went straight into limbo? I just don’t know anything about it, I never had an abortion, I don’t know anyone who had one and when doing research you first come across disturbing websites of so-call “life protectors” who argue with the right to life for everyone and women on their way to Hold up the clinic. Otherwise you won’t find much.

First you take the tablet, later the embryo is sucked off

First of all, I can be there for a preliminary talk. I sit next to the doctor at Buy abortion pills in UAE and listen as the girl is inform about the procedure for the possible abortion – a combination of tablet and suction. If the girl definitely decides to abort, she takes the tablet and about three days later she has to come back to the clinic for the operation. There her uterus will be suck out.

The girl is in her mid-twenties, had a one-night stand and is currently in training. Bad conditions. Neither her parents nor the potential father know about the appointment at the clinic. Why not? Because her decision was made immediately and she didn’t want anyone trying to talk her out of it. She wants to decide for herself. The preliminary talk is over. In five days she has an operation date, until then she should write down a pro-and-con list – and if she does not want to take the pill that initiates the termination, then she has to bring the pill back with her. That would please him, says the doctor.

I wonder if he has to say that. By legal means. Promoting abortion is still a criminal offense. Or is he saying that because he has already prevent so many pregnancies and wants to raise awareness of how to deal with an abortion less carelessly? One in ten women brings the tablet back with them on their second visit and decides to conceive. However, there are also women who come two to three times a year for an abortion, says the doctor.

When the couple sees the ultrasound, they become unsure

Second conversation. The girl came with her boyfriend, both in their late twenties. Best age – at least in terms of fertility. They are only together for a short time. I feel like they’re just trying to tick it off like they’re selling an old car. Phew, find an appointment … yes, so it’s best to do it early, and then please not that long, says the woman. And then you really have to be pick up? Yes, if it has to be, then he really has to take a detour, says the guy. What the fuck I think.

When the ultrasound image is taken and something small pea-like can be seen on the monitor, they both look at each other briefly. Less busy, less clarify and he even has wet eyes for a short time. Neither of them seem to want a child together, but for a moment the possibility flashes through their minds, how it would be if.

Blood and tissue collect in a container.

Now I’ll see how an abort works. I am nervous. The girl is 16, the friend is waiting outside. She is lying on a kind of gynecological chair, the anesthetist speaks to her, and shortly afterwards she falls asleep. Then her legs are strap in and the uterus is suck out with a long stick. Blood and tissue collect in a container.

You don’t see anything, it looks like a pile of slime. No legs, no arms, nothing scary. The girl comes to a recovery room and is allow to go home after the check-up.

In the past, there was only a local anesthetic and the woman notice a lot more, says the doctor at  Buy abortion pills in UAE. That was of course more exhausting for the doctors because they would have had to talk to her well.